To keep the romantic fire burning in a relationship, sometimes a little BDSM play is needed. It will spice up the bedroom and probably rekindle the old love and affection back. These games are easy to learn with minimal or basic props involved. Before getting involved in any BDSM games, the participants must agree on the limits. Safe words should be used where applicable too.
Role-Playing
It brings to life a sexual fantasy by two or more people who play out specific correlated roles. It can be done physically, on chat sites, and even through video games. Physically the Dom can impose a sub in master-slave play or a police officer vs an inmate. Role-playing has a power dynamic on it. Dominance and submission are the names of the game. It is possible to recreate details of a popular or favorite scene. The only limits on role-playing are the ones you impose on yourself.
Pet Games
Pet-play is whereby the submissive partner in the relationship dresses, acts, and is treated like a pet by the dominant partner. It’s popular with submissive women, and pets like puppies, kittens, and pigs are regularly used. Treats are used to reward good behavior, and lashes are dished out for any wrongdoing. Pet collars, leashes, balls for playing fetch, and lashes are used to make the game more interesting. Props for these pet games are easy to find.
Blindfolds
These are used in BDSM games to surprise partners and frustrate them with anticipation. The blindfolds also stimulate the body’s other senses lack of sight provides a boost to the rest. Interestingly, researchers have found a correlation between blindfolds and lower levels of erectile dysfunction in men. Those with the problem could take more time to orgasm while wearing a blindfold. It was attributed to the removal of visual stimulation. There are no doubt blindfolds will positively influence your bedroom affairs.
Restraints
Bondage play involves keeping the submissive restricted from movement. The restraints are usually made of rope or leather. Safety and safe words will come in handy because getting hurt is not an option. Submission and total dominance are aided by the power the Dom has due to the sex restraints. Trust and understanding between partners are important.
Fetish Wear
It is the use of impressionable clothes and accessories meant to be provocative sexually. The fetish wear is done on special occasions and events. Common costumes are the naughty nurse, schoolgirls, leatherwear, and vintage wear. The act is sexual and personal because of the diversity of people and BDSM games.
Sex Toys
Sex toys improve the atmosphere in the bedroom by spicing it up a little bit. Some of the popular sex toys include dildos, anal plugs, Double Dildos, etc. The toys can be shared, and some couples don’t mind interchanging the roles. It leads to both partners getting the satisfaction of being worked with the sex toy.
Flogging
Flogging is hitting the back and bottom of a person repeatedly with a rope or leather, also known as a flogger. It is used in games to ascertain dominance or instill discipline in another partner. The choice of flogger will depend on the experience of the participants. The flogging doesn’t necessarily have to inflict pain on the submissive partner.
Spanking
It is a common game and is widely used by couples. Usually, the spanking starts lightly, and the intensity increases with time. Advocates of this BDSM game find pleasure in pain, and spanking is right up there. Spanking can be done using hands or other toys, depending on the partners. Some people like to get a spanking on their genitals.
Candle Wax
This form of temperature play is very interesting and intriguing. A sub’s tolerance for pain is tested using candles placed on a particular body organ. The hot wax is painful but wears off with time. It is certainly for the pros.
